An excellent article. As a European I prefer women with lots of experience because that increases the likelihood that we’ll get along across so many different dimensions, but I’d never be crass enough to ask “so, how many…?” What matters is the person, the connection, the “chemistry.” It’s sad that so many men in the USA are trapped in a Victorian modality of fear and insecurity and can’t see past all that to grasp that it’s never about numbers and always about the person in front of you at that moment in time.