Anal Sex For Women

Why we need to ignore other people’s opinions and simply see what works for us as individuals

Allan Milne Lees
9 min readApr 15, 2024
A sign of the possibilities ahead

There are probably two general reactions to the notion of anal sex for women. The first is “why?” and the second is “why not?”

When I was fifteen, far back in the mists of time when even cellular phones hadn’t yet been invented, never mind the Internet, sexual information was scarce and generally very imprecise. Back in those sex-positive days before the right-wing utilization of scare tactics rolled back some of the sexual liberation created by the invention of the contraceptive pill along with the hedonistic pop culture of the 1960s and 1970s, many of us began having sex in our mid-teens. Several of the young women I knew began their sexual journeys as young as thirteen, almost always having instigated activities themselves because they were horny and curious.

It’s difficult for people today to realize that sexual politics weren’t always so toxic and that for many young people sexuality was a topic for exploration rather than something to be feared and constrained within either moronic far-right religionist superstitions or lefty-trendy Political Correctness. But that is how things were. We were ignorant but we wanted to experiment to see what might work for us as individuals. Just as today, there was…

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Allan Milne Lees

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