Good for you for having the inner self-confidence to overcome all the insecurities and anxieties than usually plague attempts to open up a monogamous relationship. In my experience the people who do so successfully are far more interesting and open-minded than the great majority of folk who need to cling to rules in order to feel safe (and who then cheat, and lie to facilitate the cheating…).

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