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How to Know If You’re Ready for a Threesome
Quite a few people fantasize about having a threesome. Most men seem to fixate on the idea of being with two women, and I’ve known a great many women who fantasize about being with two or three men simultaneously.
I also know from a significant amount of personal experience that threesomes, foursomes, and sometimes moresomes can with the right mix of people be incredible: highly erotic, highly pleasurable, and emotionally rewarding in surprising ways.
On the other hand, if you’re not truly ready for the experience, threesomes can also be awkward, uncomfortable, and regrettable.
Given that a lot of people fantasize about having a threesome and it can become a go-to fantasy that reliably delivers fantastic orgasms, how can you tell if it’s truly something you should attempt or if it’s something that should be deferred to some possible future occurrence?
Over the years I’ve learned there are usually some tell-tale signs that can help you decide.
It’s important to realize that it doesn’t matter how exciting the idea seems nor how frequently you think about it. These are indicators of how appealing the fantasy is, not indicators of whether or not you’re ready to try it in real life.
