I can only imagine how tedious it must be to be on the receiving end of dick pics, though it may provide moments of humor occasionally. For myself, I’ve found that the human race has no shortage of connards and connasses but fortunately there are also some really wonderful people out there. They just happen to be very rare and when we encounter them then we cherish them regardless of gender or preference or inclination. The term sapiosexual is apparently in vogue at present, meaning “attracted by intellect” but I like your notion more, because having an open kind heart is just as important.