I entirely concur that what people do with their bodies is largely their choice (obesity shouldn't be, because it imposes huge costs on everyone else in the form of higher healthcare spending which we all pay for one way or another). But equally, one must accept the consequences of one's choices. If I were to sport a mohawk, I should not be outraged because people respond differently to me in a working environment than if I have more "standard issue" hair. If I cover my face in tattoos of guns, I must expect negative reactions. And if I'm a man with a thick beard, I am likely to find many women do not want to kiss me.

Hence it's important to distinguish clearly between what we ourselves want, and what others may want. I've known several lesbian friends who refuse to go down on women who aren't shaved because they find it unpleasant. Doubtless there are other lesbians who'd find pubic hair a turn-on. Point is, we can't make other people approve of our choices and so long as we're OK with that, then let the party roll.