I suspect it's unwise to make too many generalizations about sexuality. In my experience different people like different things at different times. While it's very easy to see what's currently fashionably Politically Correct and Definitely Woke these are in fact exceedingly imperfect guides to reality. Best approach: explore, experiment, communicate openly. Don't let preconceptions of any kind replace mutual discovery.

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