I’ve always had an unusually high sex drive and even now, at 61, I prefer a partner who will enjoy fucking three or four times per day, every day — and more when we can make time (which is tricky because a quickie for me is 30+ minutes and a standard session is generally an hour or more, so scheduling is a challenge). I’ve learned over the years that relationships with women who desire less sex and less intense sex simply aren’t going to work out.

Meanwhile, I’ve also been fortunate enough to have had a few relationships with women whose sexual appetites matched mine, and in many cases I also encouraged them to explore with other partners in order to develop themselves more fully. With my second wife on a trip to Kyiv one time, we were having sex three and four times per day (I was working on that trip, so we had limited time together) and when I was at the office she’d meet up with a guy she’d met earlier and they’d have sex a couple of times before I got back to the flat we were staying in. On one memorable occasion her friend brought a couple of his friends along, so my wife had an extremely enjoyable day to tell me about when I finally got home from the office.