So…. does this mean I should stop dating women who consume porn? Because for the last 20+ years, every single woman I’ve dated has been either an occasional or regular consumer of porn, the sort made by men for men. Perhaps the situation is somewhat more complicated than your article, with its pervasive assumption of patriarchal intent, suggests? Or would you claim that all of these women (who are predominantly educated, independent, intelligent, funny, adventurous, and self-sufficient) are poor misguided dupes?