Thanks for sharing, Beth. Your experience is similar to that of several women I’ve known. Although I have a very high sex drive, I also have zero jealousy and I like my partners to explore their own sexuality as fully as they wish. I’ve seen over and over again how women come alive when freed from the shackles of monogamy: they become more vibrant, more confident, and far happier. Sometimes this is lost or diminishes after one or two less-than-perfect experiences but usually it can be sustained for a long time, albeit with breaks of a few weeks or months in between.