Thanks for this really useful article. I’ve often encouraged my partner to have a one-on-one with the other guy first, before having him join us for a threesome as it helps my partner confirm the erotic connection, gives them a chance to establish intimacy, and reassures the guy that I’m not going to be possessive or get freaked out.

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