The Beginner’s Guide to Anal Sex

I’ve read a lot of articles here on Medium written by women who are anxious about anal sex. Many have had bad experiences and don’t want a repeat. Many more are scared that it will hurt, it will be messy, and so forth.

So here, for what it may be worth, is a Beginner’s Guide for men and women.

For the sake of simplicity I’m going to write as if the man is doing the penetrating and…