Very nice article. From personal experience in the SF Bay Area I found swingers clubs and parties to be tedious affairs full of insecure men who just wanted to watch their partners kissing another woman. The alternative, for couples or singles who are more into actual personal connection and a wider range of possibilities, are websites that cater to those looking to add another (or more) into their sexual lives. There’s a lot of weeding-out to do, of course, but it’s worth it because there are surprisingly interesting, considerate, and hot folk out there of all genders, orientations, and ethnicities.

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