We all learn the hard way that sexual compatibility is a very difficult thing to find, not least because expectations are frequently unrealistic. It’s a shame we all have to learn through heartbreak instead of having access to more meaningful information and receiving a lot less Disneyesque indoctrination from the so-called entertainment industry. As for porn, well… let’s just say that anyone who is naive enough to imagine that what we see in porn is any more realistic than what we see in a Disney movie is in for a rude awakening.

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